Trying to work at home with your family?
Physical distancing has introduced parents to a whole new set of challenges…. How do we take care of our children and still do our jobs? How can we set clear boundaries between work time and family time? Here is a short list of things to do that we hope will be helpful to you.
How to Make Physical Distancing Work for Your Family
Physical distancing has presented parents with challenges that most of us have never faced before. Even if you already considered your family to be your primary ministry, adjusting to working at home can blur the line between family life and work life.
Do you have strategies that are working for your family? Share them with us in the comments or email delaneychurch@gmail.com. We would love to hear them!
Below are just a few approaches we’ve found so far. While we realize every family has unique circumstances, we hope you’ll find something here that’s helpful!
Communicate, collaborate, and coordinate.
When troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy – James 1:2
If both parents are trying to work from home, remember that you’re on the same team together! Try to set up a schedule that suits everyone. Some of us are taking shifts, where one parent works from 8:30am to 12pm for example, while the other cares for the kids, then switching from 12:30pm to 5pm. Make a plan, but leave room to be flexible.
…Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults…
Include your kids.
Be completely humble and gentle, be patient, bearing with one another in love! Ephesians 4:2
Ask your children to “help” in ways that make sense for their ages. You might help them make a “Time to Work” sign for you, then explain that when you hang it on the door, that means you need to concentrate. Help them make special artwork for your workspace—especially if you’ll be in video meetings. Your kids are more likely to respect boundaries between work time and family time if they feel invested in both.
Set realistic expectations.
Imprint these words of mine on your hearts and minds… Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit in your house and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Deuteronomy 11:18-19
“Productivity” looks different right now than it did three months ago. And, most of the people you work with are likely dealing with issues very similar to yours. Be a living example of the things you hope to receive from others. Give grace to your coworkers, to your children, and to yourself.
As much as you can, enjoy this time you have together.
The Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Galatians 5:22-23
It may be hard to remember right now, but just a few months ago, many of us were trying to find ways to spend more time with our kids. It’s true that our current circumstances come with real challenges. But, it’s also true that we have the power to choose how we respond. We can see them as setbacks that are causing us pain, or as opportunities to draw our families closer than ever.
Excerpts from YouVersion